Of course, the easiest, and hardest, thing to do is not go shopping. But how hard is that for most people when they see a sale sign?
Before you get excited by those bright red signs (I know you know that's a marketing trick) screaming "75% off"and handover your credit card, take a look at this quick checklist.
- First, don't look at any catalogues and unsubscribe from emails touting sales (or at least set them up to go into a different email folder where you don't immediately see them). If you hadn't seen the item was on sale, would you still have needed it?
- Next, do your own stock take at home and evaluate what you already have to determine needs from wants:
- Pull out your winter clothes and be honest about what gaps there are. Do you really need another coat? Or will one of the 4 I (er, I mean you!) already own do just fine?
- Next do the same for the kids clothes; what do you already have stashed away in the next couple of sizes? If you're anything like me, you might find you have 27 long sleeve tshirts in size 5 but no warm pants. Pants therefore go in the "need" category.
- Do the same for other categories you might be tempted to spend money on; sheets, towels, electronics, shoes, bags etc. Are they needs or wants?
- Make a list: Now you know where the gaps are in the "needs" category, make a list and stick to it.
- Shop around: Do your research for the items on your list and know your prices. Is it really a good deal or is it a gimmick? Is it feasible to get the same item 2nd hand to save both money and resources? I recently picked up a lovely navy coat for the baby from a buy swap sell site on Facebook that was on our "needs" list, looks brand new and is a more environmentally friendly option than buying new all the time.
- Shop online first, fill a basket and leave it overnight, or better yet for a couple of days. Do you still need / love it in the morning? I often find I can take most things out of my cart with no regrets, whereas if I bought the physical item in the shop I would be unlikely to return it if I changed my mind.
- Have a mortgage? Work out how much extra you'll save by putting that $200 you were going to blow on a "bargain" coat onto your mortgage. Over the life of the loan that $200 will probably save you double that in interest you don't have to pay. Now that's a real investment piece. Still need that coat?
- Picture the item in 1 month; 6 months; 12 months. Where is it? Are you still using it? Is it clutter? What would Marie Kondo say; does it spark joy? Is it in landfill? How will you dispose of it?
The reality is, I'm female and I still like the odd shopping spree. But I'm learning to be more mindful in my choices and happier to live with less, to leave more for my kids.
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